I must say at the opening of your lecture, I was intimidated, somewhat scared, and anxious to hear what you had to say. As you walked into the room, there was dead silence as if disbelief took hold of the room, even though we all knew prior as to what you would look like with the tatoos and rough exterior. However, as the lecture progressed, I started to relax and become comfortable. You truly stand for the expression “never judge a book by it’s cover”. You truly are one of the most genuine people I have ever heard and your personality is both contagious and inspirational. I have reached out to thank you, Scary. I have never been more inspired in my life. Not to say I was a bad person to begin with, but to stop all the prejudgments I have towards people before I even know their name. If I had a nickel for everytime I saw a fat guy and turned towards my friend and made a remark, I’d probably have a good amount of money. Every person carries a unique story and each should be looked at as such, not all categorized in derogatory stereotypes people make in order to boost their own self-esteem as you have mentioned in your lecture at Rider University this past Monday.

I would be lieing if I said this 7 day challenge was easy, because it certainly is not, but I am working on it. Society is becoming more and more cruel with each new generation. Best friends calling each other names in “kidding” fashion and women becoming more and more used as objects for people’s sexual enjoyment. I can’t help the world as you say, but I am starting to save mine. I want my mind to become pure and full of love. With your inspirational words and accomplishments, I believe it can be done. Good luck on your quest to lecture those fortunate enough to hear your words and for future successes coming your way. Thank you for taking the time to share your experiences and revelations and for opening the eyes of many.

Sean O’Hara


Dear Scary,

I meet with you this morning with Angus Duncan. Thank you so much for your precious time. I feel Angus really took in the words that you said and I hope will start to use them in his life. After we left you, he said how amazing the time spent with you was and that he now “holds the key”!

This is extremely amazing timing that reminds me that everything happens for a reason. He was excluded from school yesterday for is anger and dealing with it in a volatile way with an adult. When he was at home he spent the day doing numerous chores and during his lunch break we had a huge heart to heart about the source of his anger. I have known for a while it has been down to the absence and neglect from his dad. He told me he felt responsible for his dad being missing out of his life for a long time. He even felt that his father’s alcoholism and bad priorities were due to him being born. I spoke to him and told him the truth about what had happened in his lifetime and none of it was his fault. His father unfortunately has given him so much responsibility for his father and the way he behaves.

His father and I have always had a great relationship as he calls me his sole mate. It has been so sad to watch him drink his life away and watch Angus grow up with out his dad that he loves so much. I really feel the message you gave him this morning and the key has backed up this realisation for him in a positive self-empowering way. So thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your time shared!

I am constantly in awe of how much you give to the world, and each and every person’s life that you touch. I feel you are an amazing role model to the likes of children like Angus. Boys so need a strong stable intuitive male example in their lives. You came into Angus’s life at a pinnacle point. As always, timing is the essence. Thank you so much for all you do. Every meeting with you leaves me looking at my own life and how I “make” people feel and how they “make” me feel. Your concept of possessing a key will enrich my life and processing skills. Something I think I as a person and a parent have been searching for.

As one important favour is given I feel one should be given back. If there is anything in my capacity as a parent or a person living in my community you feel I can do to help your message to be passed on PLEASE say! I have already started to talk about the parent sessions we spoke about to other parents and I am putting together a list of people who might be interested together. Sorry for the long email as I know you are a very busy guy. I just needed to say thank you for what you do! So thank you!!!!! I wish you good health and safe travels on all your journeys.

With much admiration and love,
Emily Smith

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